Sleep? What sleep?

I don't seem to remember how difficult it was to establish some sort of sleeping and eating routine when Max was a baby. Was Max a better sleeper? Did he eat more regularly early on? Or, have I just forgotten? I don't know. I am just tired. I can't make sense of how much Finn needs to eat. It varies greatly from one time to another. The sleeping pattern is anywhere from 2 1/2 to 4 hours, although the 4 hour stretch has only happened once at night... He cries. Quite a lot. I think he may have a weaker stomach than Max did and becomes upset during and after feedings. It is not fun. I feel so bad for him. I hope he does better soon resulting in more sleep for all of us.